My superior a Rear Admiral looked through his reading
glasses and stared at me with the raised eyebrows. It was quite unnerving as
this was one moment for which I had mentally rehearsed. At the spur of the
moment I was trying to gather my wits sitting on a chair opposite to him, in his
spacious room.
‘Well what is wrong, why do you want to leave the Navy’ he
queried.
My appointment had been fixed with him the previous day, by
my Director with whom I was serving at the Headquarters for almost three
years.
‘Sir, I have enjoyed my
work immensely but am now am looking for a change ‘ I replied. ‘ I wish to explore the outside world' I continued’.
After having a discussion which lasted almost half an hour explaining
the virtues of continuing as the future was bright, he gave in and finally told
me, ‘Ok, find a job and let me know’!
I had been contemplating a change in career but to leave a
well -paying job with security, and honor of having served the country, was not an easy decision. I was the only earning member at home and calling it quits at
this stage with host of responsibilities made it even more difficult.
Next three months went in floating my CV to various companies;
I kept waiting for the dame luck to smile at me. Sometimes, I was almost there
but then the trail died down. There were moments of frustration as the time
kept ticking away, but I never lost hope. One day, I was called for an
interview with an MNC and then got another call after a month, with the VP visiting fom
Israel. It lasted for forty five minutes and the most assuring
words told by them which I can never forget is, ‘We will wait till you get
released from the Navy’!
The procedure for quitting was set into motion but as I was
in the zone of promotion, it was a very tough going. Eventually, with the
support coming from my superiors I got the approval for resignation on Children’s
Day ! It was a Saturday, when I hung my boots and uniform to step out in
yet another brave new world. From Monday, I was in the new job and the work
environment was a sea change from what I had seen in twenty odd years in the
Navy! I got a chance to work with youngsters who were almost half my age and
grappling with the new ways of working and in techno savvy environment was challenging,
as well as, enjoyable at the same time. There has been no looking back since then
and I have enjoyed every moment of life! (
https://housing.com/.)#StartANewLife
Curious to know what organization/domain you switched into and did it prove to be what you dreamt it would be! :)
ReplyDeleteI joined the telecom world and am working with the Swedish company now for over a decade! All dreams have come true, Akanksha:)
DeleteLike Akansha said...we would love to know more.
ReplyDeleteI am glad you dedicated to switch. It was indeed a bold move.
Maybe I will write another post on post Navy days, Red:) I am lucky to be where I am today, as I wrote in my reply to Akanksha:)
DeleteMust have been a big change for you. Glad it worked out well. Given the economic scenario, it takes courage to opt for a change. Sometimes things work out and sometimes they don't. Well, not the way we want them to. Regardless, one has to make the most of what destiny serves.
ReplyDeleteIndeed it was Alka! Switching tracks was a tough decision, but rewarding:)
DeleteWOWWOWO sir hats off to you.. taking that step, I dont have that courage I wish I can .. BUt good you did sir and heres wishing all the best always sir..
ReplyDeleteand I now know what field you moved into ..
Bikram's
Thanks a ton Bikram for those words! I love what I do:)
DeleteA hard decision - but glad it lead to a bright future too.
ReplyDeleteTrue that, LadyFi:)
DeleteIt takes guts to disturb a stable life and chase ones dreams....Thats inspiring Rahul :)
ReplyDeleteThank you Jaishree:) Sometimes chasing dreams is good is what I realized in all these years!
DeleteYou had/have the best of both worlds - in and out of the navy ! Enjoy the good times.
ReplyDeleteAbsolutely true, Rama1 I am fortunate indeed:)
DeleteYou are an inspiration.
ReplyDeleteEnjoy your life even more now. :)
Welcome to my blog Lux! A big thanks for that flattering comment:)
DeleteAh! so that's how it happened. :)
ReplyDeleteIt's so nice to see that you embrace the present. Stay happy.
So now yyou know the story:) Thanks again for your kind wishes, Divya and for reading all older posts too!
DeleteYou took a big risk but you had the courage to make a go of it.I know from my own experience that adjusting to civilian ways after an army life is demanding.
ReplyDeleteThanks Induji! God has been kind to havegiven me the opportunites and I grabbed them without carrying any baggage from the past:)
DeleteHave you heard of Rear Adm L R Mehta?
ReplyDeleteSure, I have! He was the Chief of Material at Naval Headquarers! However, I do not know him personally:)
DeleteTo take such a big decision in settled life, we need daring, flexibility, patience and versatility - which you have....an inspiring write-up! :)
ReplyDeleteAm grateful to you for all those words Kitty:)
DeleteI am sure taking a voluntary retirement from the Navy wasn't an easy decision. But you did it anyway and it turned out to be a good one.
ReplyDeleteAs Ramakrishnan Sir said- you have lived a good life both in and out of navy...:)
One has to take some calculated risk in life and this one sure was a good dcision in retrospect, Monica!
DeleteI big thanks Ashwini, but honestly I just try to follow my heart and god was kind to make my dreams come true!
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